My kids were invited to tour our city’s Christmas lights in style this weekend.
When asked her favorite part of the experience, Anna said, “I loved every single thing about it!” Then, she added, “Dad, I had Dr. Pepper, and I loved it!”
John Henry enjoyed the ride, too. But, he seemed to talk about the gingerbread cookies most. We were definitely cut from the same cloth, as they say. Whoever “they” are.
Kris and I enjoyed a night out alone together. He was gracious enough to take me to the mall, along with the rest of metro area, to shop for a pair of jeans. A very fun experience in my condition, indeed.
I asked Kris, “Are you ready for me to be skinny again?”
He responsibly answered, “I’m not touching that with a ten foot pole.”
Then, he did what every good husband does for his wife. He fed me.
Date nights with your spouse are so essential to a healthy marriage. And, I mean date nights sans children. Set aside time to be alone together. You’ll be glad you did!
Kris and I work into our schedule a weekly date night, unless he is flying all week trying to buy momma a new pair of shoes, of course. We love date nights. We talk. I laugh a lot. He holds my hand. And, from time to time, I discover something about him I’d never known before. I like that.
We don’t’ really use this time to discuss our stuff. You know, our “issues”. Those are usually reserved for times after we put the kids to bed in our living room. We like for date nights to be about enjoying each other and that occasional new discovery. Not me pointing out to Kris how I need him to do this more or that less, thus, making the date night about me and not each other. Read me?
I feel like I know Kris pretty well. Of course, there was this recent moment where I watched the third installment of Pirates of the Caribbean for the one-hundreth and seventy-ninth time. After the credits rolled, my friend pointed out that Will Turner and Elizabeth Swan had a son. How did I miss that? How did Kris miss that? So, I called Kris to let him in on the little secret, and he said, “I know.”
How could he not have shared that with me? It’s like I don’t even know him.
You see? Always room for discovery.
Kris Takle, I get the joy of rediscovering you. I’m forever yours, faithfully.
Now, let’s end this blog before the lines get even cornier.
What’s your idea of a perfect date night?
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I’m leavin’ on a jet plane. I don’t know when I’ll be back again. I really do know when I’ll be back. Sunday. Today, the little guy and I are headed south for one big wedding celebration. John Henry will be bearing some rings, and I’ll be…Well, I’ll be waving and smiling at him as he walks down that aisle with those baby blues wearing a tux. I really don’t have much of any consequence to write about today, not that this is any different from any other day. But, thank you for indulging me still.
Kris will be holding down the fort here in the great state of Oklahoma. With Anna Takle.
With Anna Takle.
Oh, what fun they are going to have. He has promised to take her out on a date to some fancy schmancy restaurant where she can wear a dress and all the trimmings. Why he seems to think he is going to win the fashion wars is nothing short of amusing, but he appears to be up for the challenge. This fancy schmancy restaurant is Mahogany Prime Steakhouse – our date night of choice. Anna, however, said that she prefers Mexican cuisine. The girl loves chips and queso. Can’t imagine where she gets that from, but it’s a trait I certainly admire.
I did offer to go ahead and make Anna’s lunch for pre-K on Friday, but Kris says he’s got it. What he doesn’t realize is that he’s going to find himself pressed for time on Friday morning after spending most of it in Anna’s closet bribing her. His choice. Have fun, babe. I do love you. And, please take notes.
Okay, that’s all I got. For real.