She couldn't find her piano bag as we were rushing out the door. She was wearing shorts that were too small, and she appeared unkempt. In the moment of her struggle where she needed me to pull closer to her, I reprimanded her for not keeping up with her things. For not taking pride in how she looks. I allowed it to domino into a discussion about what she's not doing. At first, she responded to me with exasperation in her voice.
And, then there was silence. Silence as my tone threatened her confidence. As my words ran the risk of becoming her inner voice.
She stepped out of the car empty handed, prepared to explain to her piano teacher that she was without her music. I watched her walk in. We pulled away, and my heart broke. Careless with my words. Unconscious of my tone. Because, I failed to see her in that moment as a real soul. As a representation of God in my life. In the world of parenting where we make deposits and withdrawals, I made a withdrawal. A big one.
This morning I read, “The moment when you are most repelled by a child's behavior, that is your warning light to draw the very closest to that child.” (Ann Voscamp) Holy conviction gushed out of me. Especially, in the light of my own thousands of moments where God could reprimand my behavior. I was reprimanding how she clothes herself yet failing to clothe myself in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. (Colossians 3:12)
Instead in our own weaknesses and failings, God pulls Himself even closer to us. And, He reminds us of who we really are. Wonderful. Marvelous.
Becoming more like Him every single day.
I have a lot of deposits to make today. I ask forgiveness. And I tell Anna Takle who she really is.
Wonderful. Marvelous. Beautiful. Brave. Funny. Inspiring. Gifted.
6 responses to “A Time To Draw Closer.”
This is so beautiful!! Thank you for sharing this. Valuable.
honest. humbled. tear-filled.
Thanks for sharing the raw humanity with us. Being a Momma is the most rewarding & humbling job I’ll ever get to do…and still get paid with hugs and kisses from my gracious and forgiving kiddos. love ya.
really enjoyed this post. gave me goosebumps. thank you for sharing.
Spirit always rewards honesty, thank you for sharing publicly your heart felt Godly sorry….. It’s the only remedy that’s works out our repentance….. Proud of you my friend……
Wow. The tears poured.
This is excellent! I had a crucial conversation tonight with my teen. Wish I read this post first. But… will end the evening drawing closer to her as our Father in Heaven does for me. Thanks for a great reminder!!!!!!!!!