All of those moms and dads who’ve already blazed the trail of raising children warned me. Don’t blink, they said. Time flies. You won’t believe how quickly the years go. The days may seem long, but the years are so short. You know they are right. But, you just don’t imagine your child not looking like this:
Then, one day, like today, you wake up and your baby boy is 14.
And, you realize you live with one of the kindest, gentlest, most loving souls on the planet. A young man who loves God and loves people. Who loves music old and new. Who loves playing guitar, enjoys a good game of golf, all things Marvel, and spending time on the deck with friends and family. A guy who calls my adult friends HIS friends. A sweet soul who is a joy and so much fun.
It’s hard to put into words how amazing this past year has been with you. Every year has been amazing. But, this year, especially, I’ve watched you become so sure of yourself. Confident in you who are and who God is within you. You don’t withhold your words when you want to encourage someone. You don’t withhold your arms when someone needs to be comforted or when you want to let someone know you love them. You don’t withhold your love. You give it. You live out the word gentle in gentleman in how you treat people. You are considerate. You are always aware of what is going on around you. You are aware of people and their needs. And, when you see a need, you are quick to do all you can to meet that need.
And, one of the reasons I’ve loved this past year so much with you is because, you have become one of my dearest friends. I am so thankful I get to call you my son and one of my best friends. You’re a good, good friend, John Henry. You are the salt of the earth….always making the lives of those around you better. I don’t know what lies ahead for you, but I know, without a doubt, that your future is filled with so much goodness. Because, you have been goodness, and you ARE goodness. Whoever said the teen years are hard or “just wait until they are teenagers,” never met John Henry Landreth.
Thank you for teaching us all how to treat one another. For being the best brother. For playing light sabers with Jett and being so sweet and loving to him. For allowing yourself to laugh at your sister when you know something she says is funny. For dancing with me in the kitchen and surprising me with your sweet hugs. For the honor you give to your daddy Kris. For the way you admire your daddy Bryan. For the way you love Janine and trust her wisdom.
For epitomizing a true gentleman. For making us feel better about ourselves and the world. For being YOU.
Happy 14th Birthday, John Henry. I love you more than I could ever express!
3 responses to “The Gentleman.”
He is one very nice young man! Happy birthday JH, Papa Joe and I love you!❤️🎂🎈🎉
Dusty, your blog about JH is so good, i love your words, your expressions, descriptions! JH is truly exceptional and had so many Godly influences over in Oklahoma, and Eagles Way Church, you and being loved by Kris as a son, allowing him to love his Dad freely had a lot to do with it too, I am sure! Keep blogging girl!! You touch the world with your words, your person! Love you One day at a time!! The Lord is good, giving protection in times of trouble. He knows who trusts in him. Nahum 1:7
Dusty…the summary of your letter reflects directly on you and your family…John Henry was/is raised by Christian, loving people. It all speaks for itself…LOVE is the most important! Loved it!