We’ve been in a series called “Battles” at church. It has really had me thinking about battles I have fought that should have never been a battle at all. And, fighting those battles have led to some of my biggest hurts (usually me hurting someone) which ended up being something I regretted. As a matter of fact, the majority of my regrets in life are making a bigger deal out of something than I should have….turning a minor issue into a major one. Making the insignificant significant.
We should always know better. Most, if not all, of us have experienced really hard things that were significant. Something that puts life into perspective where we see what truly matters in life. Back in April when both of my oldest ended up in the hospital with concussions, life dramatically slowed down. Nothing else mattered during that season but making sure my children were okay. Perspective was clear and right. Yet, it’s so easy to forget once that season passes. And, suddenly we are back to letting little things become big things.
That little thing your child failed to do or did becomes a big thing. And, their little souls suffer from our lack of perspective.
That little inconvenience a friend caused becomes a big inconvenience. And, her heart is hurt from our lack of perspective.
That little oversight from your spouse becomes a big oversight. And, he is stripped down and goes to sleep feeling like he let you down from our lack of perspective.
Every time we make that little thing big, someone gets hurt. A relationship suffers. And, it’s never, ever worth it.
You’ll read this today and maybe think to yourself, “Keep the main thing the main thing.” And, perhaps, you will today. Maybe even tomorrow. But time will pass, and you’ll forget. I’ll forget. Some little thing will happen and we will lose perspective and blow it out of proportion. Someone will get hurt, and we will regret it. We will struggle to take back those words. But, maybe if we can all start being accountable to one another by reminding each other to keep the main thing the main thing, we will stop fighting battles that should never be.
Souls will stay on fire with life.
Hearts will stay mended.
Relationships will stay in tact.
Because, we won’t make insignificant things significant. And, we won’t let significant things become insignificant. Because, what’s significant…..what really matters…..are the people in your life.
They are the main thing.
2 responses to “Keep the Main Thing the Main Thing.”
Very Good Reminder Dusty…Proud of you!
You’re such a great writer and so blessed to have a beautiful insight of your thought and put them into lovely words. I absolutely love to read your post.
Your an amazing young woman and I love you.